Sleeping Well- How to Get a Better Night’s Rest Without Using Medications

So before I begin this blog post, I want to state a disclaimer- the following content is my opinion only, and not meant to be medical advice. Please discuss your sleep concerns with your physician 🙂

Now that’s out of the way…. let’s talk SLEEP! I can not tell you how many patients come to me complaining of poor sleep or difficulty in falling asleep or maintaining sleep- essentially insomnia.

Insomnia can be caused by such a variety of factors- anxiety, depression, obstructive sleep apnea, pain, other chronic medical conditions, various sleep disorders, poor sleep hygiene / habits. The list goes on and on… the most effective way to treat insomnia is by figuring out its root cause and then fixing that problem. I am not a fan of using medications to help with sleep, especially benzodiazepines such as Ativan, Xanax, or even medicines like Ambien and Lunesta due to their potential for dependence.

In general, there are several tips and guidelines that you can follow to help achieve a better night’s sleep-

  • Aim to shut off all electronic devices for at least one hour before bedtime- the blue light emitted from screens is quite activating even without you realizing it
  • Room should be dark– pitch black, no light from any source, even a small light from the TV remote control box can be stimulating and interfere with sleep
  • Room should be quiet– use white noise if you have to drown out inconsistent background noises- for example you can buy a sound machine that produces white noise or you can even download an app onto your phone which will provide these sounds
  • Room should be cool– not hot, not freezing cold
  • Consider not having your pets, children in the bed with you
  • Bed should only be for SLEEP and SEX– no catching up on work while you are resting in bed
  • Have a consistent night time routine– this signals to your brain that sleep time is approaching
  • No caffeine once the afternoon hits
  • No excessive alcohol consumption in the evenings
  • Do not eat dinner right before getting ready for bed- try to have a couple of hours in between eating and going to sleep
  • Avoid taking naps in the daytime
  • If you find yourself waking up in the middle of the night, tossing and turning and not able to fall back to sleep consistently, consider getting out of bed- then try sitting in the dark or with very little light and do a repetitive monotonous activity- for example, filing your nails, praying a rosary, knitting, etc- once you find yourself dozing off, go back to bed. This is a form of sleep training- do not let yourself toss and turn for more than 15 to 20 minutes.

Most importantly- speak to your PCP about your insomnia– as I mentioned in the beginning, the most effective way to get a better night’s sleep is to figure out the root problem. For example, maybe you have untreated anxiety- going to counseling, receiving cognitive behavioral therapy, and maybe starting a medication for anxiety that is not habit forming will help treat the anxiety and thus the insomnia will improve. Maybe you have obstructive sleep apnea which is causing a poor night’s rest- diagnose and treat the obstructive sleep apnea and you will feel much more refreshed in the morning.

It is a myth that you need 8 hours of sleep a night- 8 hours is a good rule of thumb for most, however some patients do just fine with 6-7 hours, some need more like 9 hours.

Hope that this post is helpful- we all need our beauty sleep! It is while we sleep at night that our immune system recovers and our brain processes what we have learned throughout the day!

Love,

Monica

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Why I Became a Beautycounter Consultant and My Favorite Products

So last month I did something COMPLETELY out of my comfort zone… I became a consultant for a “clean” makeup and skincare company, Beautycounter. I have been a makeup and skincare addict for years… let’s say since medical school. I used to binge watch Youtube make up tutorials for hours and obsess over the newest releases from various companies. Buying beauty products, particularly makeup has always been my guilty pleasure- and is something I still very much enjoy (maybe a little bit too much according to my husband)!

With regards to Beautycounter, I began to learn about the concept of “clean” beauty back in January and became very much intrigued. Maybe I had been living under a rock, but I never really paid attention to terms such as “clean beauty” or “green beauty”. I knew that Sephora had a special classification of products that were considered clean, and that was about it. Well for those of you who were like me and do not know about these terms, clean beauty is a subset of the beauty and skincare industry in which there is an emphasis on avoiding controversial and potentially harmful ingredients like parabens, sulfates, oxybenzone etc. It is not a regulated term and does not have a universal definition.

One of the Catholic lifestyle bloggers I follow on Instagram, Nicole Caruso, is a consultant for Beautycounter too and after watching her videos and learning about Beautycounter, I decided to buy several of their products. Well, I fell in love… the hype is real. I first bought their Dewskin tinted moisturizer which I am absolutely obsessed with. It is sheer and glowy, super hydrating on the skin and has a physical SPF. I am wearing this tinted moisturizer in the photo at the top of this blog post.

I also bought their Counter+ No. 1 Brightening Facial Oil which I have been using in the PM as the last step of my skin care routine instead of a moisturizer. I have combination skin with large pores on my nose and this oil helps my skin stay hydrated without any breakouts. Before this I was super hesitant to use facial oils, however now I am a big believer. My only advice is to use a little bit of oil- a few drops, as a little goes a long way.

I could go on and on in regards to other products that I am loving, such as their Overnight Resurfacing Peel, their new lipglosses which contain responsibly sourced vanilla, but this post would never end. After using and loving many of their makeup and skin care products, I decided to be brave and join as a consultant. Beautycounter is different from other direct sales companies in that the focus is not on recruiting other clients to join as sellers- and you do not even have to purchase through a consultant! Beautycounter is available from their own website, at Sephora for a limited time, in a few retail stores, and through a consultant such as myself. The prices are the same whether you buy through a consultant or from the website directly. The bonus of buying through a consultant is that they can obtain samples for you, help you choose which products would be best to meet your needs, advise you when sales / promotions are occurring and provide further instruction and education.

Beautycounter is an ethical company; I believe that they are very fair with their consultants- full transparency, I paid $50 to become a consultant and receive 25-35% commission from my sales. I also get discounts off most of their products… that alone is worth it! Beautycounter uses only the safest ingredients possible; they hire outside companies to test their products for safety, and they push for new legislation to improve regulation of the personal care industry. Makeup and skincare is not highly regulated by the FDA- and I can say that as a physician I find that downright scary. (Neither are vitamins and supplements which is a whole other story!) Compared to Europe, the United States’s supervision of beauty and skincare companies is dismal.

So with all that being said, if I have the option to choose “cleaner” beauty and skin care brands- I am going to do it! In addition to Beautycounter, other clean brands that I have been enjoying are The Honest Company, Burt’s Bees and Pacifica. Believe it or not, Target has a really nice selection of clean brands. Other clean make up brands that I am dying to try include Ilia and Ere Perez. In full honesty, I still use my less “clean” make up and skin care- I have not given those products up (just yet), but I am definitely slowly moving towards choosing brands which do not use harmful ingredients and focus on safety. My biggest takeaway is that we should all be more mindful of ingredients in our personal care products. Our skin is our largest organ for crying out loud!

If you have any questions about Beautycounter or want to pick my brain on “clean beauty” in general- please send me a message or leave me a comment! Beauty, skincare and wellness are some of my biggest passions, and I can talk about them for hours!

You can shop with me through this link www.beautycounter.com/monicasuarezkobilis

Any Beautycounter links in this post direct you to my personal Beautycounter website, so you would be shopping with me as your consultant.

I hope you are having a beautiful start to your week!

Love,

Monica

Procrastination & Perfectionism

As I write this post, my very first La Doctora Suarez blog post, I find myself anxious, at unease, feeling disappointed in myself. This is not my first attempt at sitting down to write this blog. My sweet, loving husband gifted me this Word Press site several years ago. He knew my dream was to start writing, to start a blog so that I could share my thoughts and views from the perspective of a female family medicine doctor. This was back in 2017- fast forward to 2020 and here we are.

Now I must say this- I am not a professional writer in any way. I used to enjoy writing when I was much younger, I always excelled in literature and language arts classes much more than in the sciences (which is ironic as I work in a science dominated field). However I have always felt urged to write, to create- to share my thoughts with the world, express some creativity.

Why did it take me three years to actually create my first post? The answer is PROCRASTINATION, one of the challenges I struggle with on a daily basis. Also there is probably some degree of striving for perfectionism mixed in there as well. My first blog post needed to be PERFECT. I could not start this blog without impeccable photos, a well planned Instagram account, a sizable social media following. Well, you know what- I am starting this blog without any of those things in place. If I keeping waiting for the perfect moment, if I keep procrastinating, becoming distracted, how will I ever get started? How will I truly start following my dreams and striving for the life that I want to live? Why put off for tomorrow what I can do today? 

There is no such thing as “the perfect time, the perfect moment”…

So let’s embrace the present, and start TODAY.

I hope that you stay with me as I go on this journey. I promise that this blog will blossom as my skills develop. I plan to discuss all kinds of topics- women’s wellness, faith, family life, travel, food, beauty. My hope is that La Doctora Suarez brings joy, inspires and becomes a resource for you.

Love,
Monica